round it goes...

There was the guy who I met in April and then he vanished because his father died. That isn't something I can be upset about. We were hanging out once a week. But nothing too intense. Something about guys these days, they talk about going to a movie but they never actually go to a movie. It's getting to the point when a guy mentions it I want to slap him.

Anyway, it doesn't seem like he has much money at all. The first date the credit card was declined and he had to use another one. All the other dates were burgers and cheap fast food joints.( 4 in total ) He never ordered for himself either. Only ate fries. I liked spending time with him so I could sort of overlook that a bit. But truth be told I am at the point in my life where I enjoy going to a real restaurant. Maybe a bit of fine dining every now and then too. Having burgers was just to go easy on the guy. He doesn't have a regular job, and works weekends doing video stuff. However I felt like he would disappear soon. He pretty much did. Deciding to get a real estate licence, and become a tax preparer all in the same month. So he is busy. But I think taking a break once a week isn't asking a lot. He hasn't in a month. He texts but doesn't call. He talks about being intimate, but to me I feel like he's playing games with me. It's as if he thinks I am not worth much of his time or energy anyway so how dare I ask for his time. He then tries to flip the script on me and say if I want to see him so badly then I should come to him. This seems like a man who has decided I am some sort of gold digger (for burgers) and wants me to come to him to prove I am not just using him for burgers.  BURGERS!  I was attracted to him. But I think this situation is hopeless. 

You want to take people for who they are. Deal with character and all that. Not count a guy out because he doesn't have a bunch of cash. Many people are struggling, myself included so I can be understanding. However, there has to be a limit somewhere. I am not married to this person. You can't afford to take me on nice dates, so I have to do without? I have to settle for burgers because you can't do better? If I like someone and they can't do better then I am supposed to settle? It's really frustrating. Then he doesn't see me for an entire month then wants me to come to him.

Experts say that if a man doesn't see you in a month, he's not that into you. So I am supposed to go out of my way to go and see someone who isn't that into me? Yeah that seems like a good idea. 

I told him I needed to speak with him, and called him and he doesn't pick up. So I guess that's my answer.